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  • Story of Resilience: Leadership lessons taught through conflict

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    The congregation where I served as lead Pastor had enjoyed ten years of growth in ministry creativity, dynamic outreach, attendance and facilities when conflict erupted. Personal confidence was replaced by a whirlpool from which escape would abandon others also drowning. They were persons I loved deeply; persons God and the congregation had charged me to shepherd. To walk away would have felt like violation of calling and integrity. Yet I knew not how to stay and survive. It raged two long years. Rumors and personal attacks drained life, vision, energy from this young Pastor. How does one lead through chaos? How does one preach in the face of confusion, fear, mistrust, and even pockets of hate? How does one protect Christ’s kingdom, a church’s witness;...

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  • Jason Blair: Story of Resiliency in fatherhood

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    Continuing with our series called “Stories of Resilience,” I am grateful to present a story of resilience from the Blair family’s ongoing journey with autism as told by Jason Blair:  For fun, we used to call her our little “angry child.”  Julia, our youngest of five children, often screamed in anger and frustration ever since she was born.  Having parented 4 kids through the infant and toddler stages, my wife and I thought it was just another unique personality trait of one of our kids.  Fast forward a few years after many frustrating, tantrum-filled, sleepless nights. It wasn’t a shock when we read the CHOP (Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania) doctor’s diagnosis: Autism.  It only confirmed what we knew in our hearts.  Julia used to sing...

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